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“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
publicwoohoo:
“ Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC  Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17   This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking...
  • publicwoohoo:

    Oasis Springs Wedding Venue NoCC

    Download on The Gallery at Origin ID: Heckstress17

    This is Villa Love, a Mediterranean inspired wedding venue for your sims living in Oasis Springs. It features an outdoor ceremony space overlooking the water, and an upstairs reception hall. There’s also a large kitchen downstairs for caterers to prepare meals, and a photo studio in the basement to capture moments of the special day! Set as a lounge so hopefully all sims arrive in formal wear.

    $168,011
    40x30
    No CC
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  • somepiecesofmyheartandsoul:
“You belong next to me.
– Lukas W.
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  • somepiecesofmyheartandsoul:

    You belong next to me.

    Lukas W.

  • oylmpians:

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    whoever is running the sparknotes twitter account needs a raise

  • three-course-dessert:

    OMG I want to go back in time and send all of these to english-majoring student me. After I explain twitter. And John Mulaney. And later seasons of Parks & Rec.

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  • writingwithcolor:

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    Caring for natural (curly) hair in a setting with no access to modern hair products

    So it’s the apocalypse. Your curly-haired character is on the run.They find themselves on a sudden adventure in a strange world.  It’s the whatever-eth century and they’re in an environment that doesn’t exactly accommodate curly, coily haired types. 

    Either way, manufactured hair products are far and few between, or they’re simply not made for afro hair. Considering how your Black character handles their hair in this environment makes their circumstances more realistic and relatable.

    Topics Featured in this Guide:

    • Hair Products found in Natural Environment
    • Hair Oils - Benefits and How To Extract
    • Protective Hair Techniques & Styles
    • Curly Hair Types & Hair Needs
    • Hair Routine Samples
    • Hair Straightening 
    • FAQ

    There is a writing takeaway at the end of each topic. 

    Brief descriptions provided after images. Contact me for fully accessible version.

    Hair Products found in Natural Environment 

    Consider the essential needs of afro hair: water and fat.

    1. Water (or liquid) is essential for nourishing the hair. 
    2. Fat (hair oils, creams, butters) is essential for both growth and protection.

    Many curly-haired folks already use natural resources and plants to care for their hair - aka DIY hair-care. So characters concocting their own products should not be a strange concept. (I personally buy most of my natural hair products, and create my own hair masks, protein treatments, and oil blends.)

    What they could use would depend on environment, time, and availability. 

    Hair Healthy Produce 

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    Coconut - The all-purpose hair aid with multi forms, from oil to solid cream. Hardens in cold weather; best not to use when environment has freezing temps.
    Banana - Typically removed after use (hair masks, conditioners)
    Avocado -  Applied as hair products, masks, and oils.
    Strawberry - Mashed and applied directly to hair or mixed with oils.

    Hair Healthy Proteins, Plants, Fats

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    Eggs - Hardens when dry. Strong odor. Removed after use. (protein masks)
    Honey - Pulls moisture from air into hair - avoid during the dry winter!
    Shea Nuts -  Made into shea butter. All-purpose hair and body care.
    Flaxseed - Gel made by boiling & straining flax seeds. Many DIY videos online.

    Hair Healthy Herbs and Flora

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    Hibiscus - Sebaceous = oil-producing gland. Flowers crushed into paste or oil.
    Peppermint - Can rub out oil from leaves. Often used in oil form on scalp.
    Lavender - Often used as an oil directly applied to the scalp, or brewed as tea.
    Rosemary - Often combined with olive oil in use with hair; can be used alone. 

    More Hair Healthy Herbs and Flora

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    Aloe Vera - Succulent. Can extract sap directly from leaf and apply like gel. 
    Burdock - Contains essential fatty acids and phytosterol compounds.
    Dandelion - Can use the roots, stems, leaves and sap for hair and skin.
    Rose - Common use is rose water: steep roses in boiling water to create.

    Hair Healthy Products (rare or require effort to make/find)

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    Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV) - Diluted before use and often washed out after.
    Bentonite Clay - Aged volcanic ash. Combined with ACV for best activation.
    Oils - Key component for sealing moisture. See the next discussion.
    Yogurt - Base of many DIY hair products like masks and deep conditioners.

    Oils for Hair 

    Oil is a key component to afro hair care. It nourishes and seals in moisture. Let’s discuss common hair oils and extraction methods that could, more likely, be done using homemade or historical equipment. 

    Oil Extraction

    If oils aren’t readily available to purchase, the person would need to find or create tools to either extract the oil via pressing or heat the nuts or seeds. Consider the basic tools that have been around since ancient times. For example, the mortar and pestle. What creative use can be made out of existing tools in the person’s environment? 

    Hair Oils and Benefits  (by potential ease to extract.)

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    Coconut Oil, Castor Oil, Almond Oil, Olive Oil, Avocado and Grapeseed Oil. 

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    FYI: These aren’t the only methods or necessarily professional means of extraction. I also left off hair-healthy oils that seemed complicated to extract without high-grade equipment. So, this isn’t an all-inclusive list of oil or methods. 

    Natural Hair Product Creation

    So what exactly would your character create? Here’s some natural hair products and potential main ingredients. May be used alone or combined. 

    • Leave-in moisturizers: Plain water, coconut water, rose water
    • Leave-in creams: (protect/style) honey, shea, aloe vera, flaxseed, flora
    • Hair Cleansing Conditioner: plant water, coconut, honey, light oils
    • Hair Rinse/Co-wash: Apple cider vinegar, coconut, brewed tea water
    • Hair Masks: Mashed fruits, yogurt, proteins (eggs), clay, honey

    DIY Recipe Search: Try keywords like “DIY natural hair” + “curly hair” “Afro hair” or search all natural hair products and read over the ingredient list. Try small home business and independent sellers (Like etsy)

    More Sources:

    Product Storage:

    • Most homemade products last everywhere from a few days - weeks
    • Extend the life of spoil-prone products via the cooling system in the work.
    • Honey does not spoil. Be mindful if it’s mixed with spoil-prone ingredients.
    • Oils can usually be kept at room temperature and last a long time.

    Keeping a small bit of ready made supply may prove time-efficient. If impossible, they may opt to use products that don’t require much time and effort, and are worth their time to make in small batches or to potentially dispose of after.

    Writing Takeaway - Natural Product/Oils Creation  

    With just the above compounds, I can see creative naturals being able to create styling products and moisturizing leave-ins, shampoos, conditioners and hair masks.

    Do consider the following:

    • How simple or complex can their regimen be?
    • Would they rely more on protective hair styles in their situation?
    • What is the natural environment: what products are accessible?
    • How will they store products or must they make a new batch each use?
    • Can items be purchased by craftsmen or found in abandoned locations?
    • Can they afford to use edible plants if food is scarce? Food scraps and non-edible plants (like the flora) might be what they rely on.
    • What are their specific hair care needs? -Discussion on this later-

    Natural Hair and Styling 

    LOC Method as base style

    Moisture, sealing in the moisture, and protection are the basic needs for natural hair. The Liquid, Oil, and Cream (LOC) Method, or a variation of the steps, fulfills those basic needs. It can be treated as both a care routine and a style in itself. Personally, if my hair is not in a protective style, I use it every week.

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    1. Liquid - Liquid opens hair cuticles to allow moisture to enter hair strands.
    2. Oil - Once cuticles are opened, the oil penetrates hair & seals in moisture.
    3. Cream - Cream further locks in the moisture, and can be used as a styling agent as well to shape and define curls.

    Should you use the “LOC method” by name in your work?  

    • A modern setting? Sure. But don’t assume readers know what it means.
    • A fantasy setting? Probably not, unless earth and its terms carry over. 
    • A historical setting? No. It is a newly coined term

    Protective Hair Styles

    Protective hairstyles protect the hair by tucking ends away from the elements. For example, heat, air, hand and fabric manipulation. While not forever solutions (except maybe locs which are a permanent style) there’s many benefits to your character’s wearing them.

    Benefits:

    • Hair growth retention
    • Saves time styling hair
    • Helps prevent damage and keep hair healthy
    • Ideal for any natural (the best style itself may depend on hair type)
    • Lessens hair’s need and dependence on moisture and hair products
    • Eliminates some hair maintenance activities (such as detangling)

    Considerations:

    • Hair more difficult to wash and dry thoroughly. 
    • Dryness (unable to access all tucked away hair to moisturize)
    • Styles kept in too long accumulates dead skin and product build up.
    • Uninstalling styles can be time consuming, and should be done gently.
    • Style gets frizzy from growth overtime and/or getting soaked in water.
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    Protective Styles Short-term (lasting days to weeks)

    • Afro puff(s) or bun(s)
    • Back Tuck or Roll and Tuck
    • Bantu knots
    • French roll  
    • Pompadour
    • Roller set
    • Two-strand twists
    • Wash and go (low manipulation style)
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    Protective Styles Long-term (lasting weeks to months+)

    • Braids (endless styles and patterns. Typically smaller braids last longer)
    • Cornrows
    • Dreadlocks/locs (permanent style, research the hair care)
    • Extensions
    • Flat Twists /Twists
    • Head wraps and hats (endless wrapping styles, colors and patterns!)
    • Wigs (unless glued, hair maintained underneath or often put in braids)

    Writing Takeaway - Protective Hairstyles

    Protective styles are an amazing way to protect the character’s hair and would very likely be the go-to for any natural in an uncertain or fast-paced environment. Just in everyday life they’re highly worn so it would especially be the case! Just remember the character needs to eventually undo whatever protective style they have installed to do some hair maintenance (washing, detangling, etc) and give their strands a rest. Also, even hair in protective styles need some attention.

    Curly Hair Type and Associated Needs

    Determining your hair type is important to knowing its needs. Certain ingredients work best for certain hair types. However everyone is unique and there are more factors to consider than just curl pattern (Also, most curly folks cross into a mix of hair types). There is hair thickness (width & density) and how much moisture and product your hair absorbs (porosity) to consider as well. 

    I will only cover curl pattern and the commonly associated needs here. To learn more about porosity, width, and density check out the FAQ under the read more.

    naturallycurly.com is a great resource and is the source for the images, terms, and information provided below. 

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    Curly Twirly (3A) 

    Defined loopy “S” pattern. Curls well defined and springy. Big, loose and shiny. Size: Sidewalk chalk size.
    Best Products:  Gels and creams with light moisture and curl definition.

    Curly Spirally (3B) 

    Well-defined, springy copious curls that range from bouncy ringlets to tight corkscrews. Size: Sharpie size.
    Best Products:  Gels and styling creams with extra moisture and frizz control.

    Curly Kinky (3C) 

    Voluminous, tight corkscrew curls. Either kinky or very tightly curled, with lots of strands densely packed together. The very tight curls are usually fine in texture. Size: Pencil.
    Best Products:  Styling creams, butters, and oils. Needs gentle care.

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    Coily Springy (4A) 

    Well-defined “S” Pattern. Tight, coily, and the most fragile curls.
    Size: Crochet Needle or smaller.

    4A Best Products & Tips: Styling creams, butters, and oils. 

    • Clarify scalp with tea tree or jojoba oil during washes
    • This hair needs extra moisture and tender care
    • Be gentle when handling and detangling hair to avoid stress & breakage
    • Use thick moisturizers like mango and shea butters to maximize styles

    Coily Crimpy (4B)  

    Less-defined “Z” Pattern. Tight, coily fragile curls. Hair bends at sharp angles.

    4B Best Products & Tips:  Styling creams, butters, and oils.

    • Add moisturizing oils before washing (pre-poo/pre-shampoo) with coconut or castor oil to help retain the natural oils in scalp
    • Do heat-free styles on stretched hair for maximum definition and less frizz
    • Air-dry hair whenever possible, or use soft cloth to gently dry.
    • Terry cloth will strip hair’s natural moisture and cause tension on strands 

    Coily Ziggly (4C) 

    Tight, coily, fragile curls. Curl pattern won’t clump without styling. Little to no visible definition.

    4C Best Products and Tips:  Styling creams, butters, and oils.

    • Use a cleansing conditioner with slippery elm or marshmallow root
    • Use a creamy humectant [like honey] as a leave-in to maximize protection
    • A curl defining custard or gel can stretch the coils safely for styled looks

    Read the full guide here: Curly Hair Guide: What’s YOUR Curl Pattern?

    Writing Takeaway - Hair type and needs

    While hair type is just the start of all the intricacies of natural hair needs, it’s definitely a good start. There are other important parts to consider for real life naturals, but going off from hair type and the commonly associated needs should be enough for a story. (But read the FAQ under the read more to keep learning)

    Do not get lost in the details, especially for a story that won’t need to cover tons of it. Learn enough to know what you’re talking about and can describe hair care accurately for situations that would affect hair.

    Writing Takeaway - Overall:

    You don’t have to be lavish in detail, but acknowledging how hair is handled here and there or in a dedicated section is thoughtful and satisfying to see included. It’s also a neutral way to show race without the use of micro-aggressions or racism. Finding the time and means for proper hair care would be a part of their life and potentially a stumbling block on the adventure, so mentioning how hair is handled during these circumstances is a fine idea. 

    It’s also a great means for representation.

    –Mod Colette

    Additional Info:

    The following information will be nestled under the read more:

    • Hair Routine Samples - One super simple and one complex hair routine 
    • Hair Straightening - Not ideal to maintain in survival situations, but also was a means of survival and daily living during some historical contexts
    • FAQ - Would any of this matter during the apocalypse? And what about natural products that attract bugs? Plus more.

    Keep reading

  • z-ndjenja:

    I just want my kids like “wow mommy and daddy are really in love”

  • How to Fight Perfectionism
  • onlinecounsellingcollege:

    1. Delete “ought”, “must” and “should” from your vocabulary.

    2. Get rid of all unrealistic goals, and replace them with realistic, achievable goals.

    3. Accept and love yourself unconditionally.

    4. Recognize that NOBODY is perfect – despite what the media, or other people, say.

    5. Love your quirks and value your uniqueness.

    6. See mistakes as lessons on the road to success.

    7. Notice all the positives, and small accomplishments.

    8. Enjoy, and be thankful for, the good things in your life.

  • lovecharms:

    save the bees… and save the bats, save the wasps, save the moths. they are all pollinators, and they are all important to the earth, even if our human eyes don’t deem them as charming as hummingbirds. we have to protect them too!

  • lovecharms:

    the LITERAL point of this post was that even if we don’t particularly like certain pollinators, we shouldn’t condone their extinction. 

    it’s heartbreaking that people are reblogging this with “i hate wasps, they can die!“ wrong! try again! it’s actually not about you, sorry.

  • brynwrites:

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    Thank you google.

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    Unthank you google.

  • Tips to finishing creative writings
  • 100doplangblr:

    • Have one main piece and several smaller ones
      The story you are most eager to write and has some form of a developed plot should be your main story, but don’t limit yourself to only that piece. That’s when you abandon it. Instead, tell yourself, “I have a good idea for another story. Let me write 500-1000 words of it.” This allows you to put what’s in your mind on paper. You can also get a feel for it and see if it is really something you think you could write an entire story for. When you finish your main story, come back to it and make that your new main if you still want to write it.
    • Use your desire to write another story to finish the one you’re working on
      Continuing with the point from above, if you are still extremely excited about your small work, use that enthusiasm to fuel your current story. Tell yourself, “I need to finish X story before I can write Y story.” You will write so much more and so much faster than you ever planned. You can also be proud that you finished something you originally planned to abandon.
    • Love your characters
      This may seem obvious, but writing is hard if you don’t even know or like your characters. Draw your characters together. Give them funky clothes or send them abroad. Even make an AU of your story in your head. If you can’t draw, find an avatar creator and give your characters a tangible image. The more you love your characters and give them personalities, the more eager you will be to write about those characters.
    • Take a break
      Be kind to yourself. You’re only human. If life is stressful and writing is more of a chore than it is fun, take a break. When you have more free time and are excited to write again, sit down, grab a pen, and find yourself happily immersed in a world you haven’t visited in a while.

      Good luck with your stories and be kind to yourself <3
  • lazytrashbarbarian:

    If you never finish your novel then how am I going to write fanfiction about it? 

  • Character Questionnaire (A list of questions you might not ask your characters but can help you get to know them)
  • aidenjaxwrites:

    I was working on the main character in my WIP “This Is Where You Left Me”, and came up with the idea to create a character questionnaire; A list of questions to ask to help you get to know your characters! You can answer them here, or just write them here, or just write the answers down to think more about later!

    1) Introverted or extroverted

    2) Talker or a listener

    3) Intimate or distant

    4) A sexual person or not

    5)Interested in relationships or not

    6) Positive or negative

    7) Big or small hands

    8) Tentative or confident

    9) Creative or  not

    10) Academic or not

    11) Glasses or none (Good vision? Contacts?)

    12) Clear skin or not (freckles? Birthmarks? Patchy skin? acne?)

    13) Innocent or mature

    14) Kind or rude to strangers

    15) Independent or not

    16) Feminine or masculine or androgynous

    17) Empathetic or apathetic or somewhere in between

    18) Good at making friends or not

    19) Sporty or not

    20) Stiff or fluid movements

    21) Fidgety or still

    22) Eats a lot or only a little

    23) Messy or neat

    24) Early or late riser

    25) Morning person or night person

    26) Sweaters or coats

    27) Socks or no socks

    28) One pillow or more

    29) Warmth or cold

    30) Likes doodling or doesn’t

    You can use these questions in any way you like. They can become important parts of you character, or something that you know that never even ends up being mentioned. You can choose a simple answer, or you can write a deep, long answer, if that’s what you want. This is just is just a simple questionnaire to get to know your characters more

    You can also reblog this as an ask game if you want.

    Tag list: @incandescent-creativity @illiteracy-is-for-woozles @kit-tells-a-story@knox-novels @roselinproductions @writings-of-a-narwhal@kclenhartnovels@elaynab-writing

  • writeontheedge:

    Other writers: Oops I accidentally wrote a whole novel, this was supposed to only be one scene, silly me, haha

    Me: Oops I accidentally didn't write anything, hahahhaahhhhhhhhhh

  • How to Game of Thrones Your Writing
  • jessawriter:

    (spoilers)

    I started watching GoT recently in order to catch up before the last season comes out, and it’s made me think about all kinds of writerly things, especially in regards to plot:

    Keep reading

  • padfoot-prongs-and-polaroids:

    @ninshadow asked drarry or hinny

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